Avoidance in relationships

Listening to Jared’s dating troubles I used to do this as well. So when my (now husband) was super interested the first few dates initially I pushed him away. But then after a month or so of casual dating, I texted him half heartedly one day, and he then responded with a break up text - essentially he didn’t feel I was giving much effort and the connection wasn’t there like he initially thought. I was shocked.. he had seemed so enthusiastic initially but he wasn’t willing to get strung along. So my advice to Jared is just because someone is super interested on date four doesn’t mean they want to marry you. They are just liking what they see so far. Not every girl is dying to marry you. If it seems like that, are you attracting a certain type of person? You might get to date 12 and they will realize you aren’t quite it for them either. If you cut it off at date 3 each time you still barely know the person.