Jared, what's the deal?

I love this show but I've been pretty bummed out by Jared's take on things on a regular basis. It seems like he bases all his responses on his personal insecurities. Like last episode when all he could focus on was that the writer was saying the guy didn't have a hard d!ck. That's a problem for most ladies, especially when it's a hook up... The guy was literally practicing BDSM on her with no consent convo and Jared is all "lemme give this guy a little empathy." Isn't the whole point to laugh at this guy being a total d-bag?? We don't need an explanation of why the man deserves empathy on every question, Jesus Christ. And yes I know the girl was laughing about it and so was I. You give women who write in a hard time for the littlest this and this guy deserves empathy, ok guys...