Am I the red flag!?

Big fan of the podcast! Just listened to the avoidant discarding episode and my brain is exploding over the RF or DB: guy doesn’t have ice. I am a 39 YO woman and don’t have ice!!!! Homeowner, successful lawyer in a big city, good dog parent, newly separated - was it the lack of ice????!!! I just buy ice when I need it. Is this not okay???? But in all seriousness so much fun, hope everyone listens!