I’ve been a loyal U Up. Listening on Spotify since 2018 and a subscriber since the benefits began, but I just canceled my subscription. Want to know why? Jared.
His approach to dating has become frustrating. He says he doesn’t play games, but his behavior tells a different story. Claiming you’re “not looking for a relationship” , as he said he would from the January 1st episode, while hoping to accidentally stumble into the right one is a game. Real relationships take effort, accountability and some measured delusion 😋, qualities Jared seems unable to embrace.
Until Jared works on his fear of “waste someone’s time” and his reluctance to do the personal work, his advice will remain out of touch and unhelpful. It’s disappointing to see his perspective become so impractical, which is why I’m moving on.
Thanks for the years of great advice. It’s radical changed my approach to dating and I can now say I am truly happy. Best of luck out there to Jared, I really do hope he gets out of his own way to find what he’s looking for. And thanks Jordana for always saying what we are all thinking or feeling.